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Donate and Development Movement (DDM) is founded by Mey Sam to fund selected non-profit organizations supporting vulnerable families and children.
Donors will experience a transformation journey to rekindle relationships, advance in their careers and live life with purpose under 66 days.
All donations will go to charity.
About Mey Sam
Hi, I am Mey Sam. I don't know how you have come to this page. Maybe is through my Facebook blog or a friend's recommendation. Regardless, my thanks to you for your interest to help those in need. Allow me to introduce myself.
At age 35, I have 3 children. Like most people, I was climbing up the corporate ladder. Life felt like walking on tight rope. Balancing my work, family, social life and my passion was almost impossible. Demanding workload and unreasonable colleagues. Work was taking me away from my children. They are screaming for my attention. Their unfulfilled needs are showing up in academic struggle and anger management issues. Conflicting parenting styles between my husband and in-laws was straining our relationships.
Nobody taught me how to be a good parent.
I was stressed up and feeling guilty for not being there when my children needed me the most. It was the point in my life when I didn’t even know myself. I felt lost. What got me here will not get me where I want to be.
Today, I’m extremely proud that all of my 3 children are happy and self-motivated individuals. That was my goal, that was my objective. My satisfaction at work has never been better. My husband and I have our couple time. I have time for myself pursuing my interests.
I’m committed to help parents who are going through similar struggles so that they don’t need to go through that pain that I’ve been through. I help parents with children aged 3-12 years old to develop a parenting strategy to nurture happy and self-motivated children and not compromise on their career.
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"Bond Through Bedtime Stories".
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Top 10 Parenting Challenges
Children are not motivated to study and give up easily.
Children are having too much screen time, potentially leading to the development of anti-social behaviour.
Children get distracted easily, are unfocused and have little discipline.
Parents are struggling to balance child-raising, work responsibilities, and personal interests. They usually come home from work already tired, short-fused and often end up screaming at their children.
Children have bad attitude and even rebellious, disrespectful, lazy, lying and not listening to their parents.
Conflicting parenting style between spouse, grandparents and other caretakers that results in unnecessary conflicts.
Children’s over-exposure to media could lead to meeting bad people online.
Children develop bad habits and irresponsible behaviour (e.g. not packing their bags, leaving things everywhere in the house and like to eat junk food or use vulgarities)
Children are bullied in school, or are themselves the bullies.
Parents lose intimacy with their spouse or personal identity as a result of having their children as their primary focus.
Participants can look forward to getting back their lives by freeing up their time. The biggest parenting challenge is not having enough time.
It's no secret that parenting is difficult. I've even wondered which is harder; managing a team of co-workers or raising children? Similarities between managing and parenting are interesting. Management isn't for everyone, just like being a parent doesn't suit us all.
Participants can expect after 10 weeks to pick up tips, techniques and strategies to nurture happy and self-motivated children. You free up your time when your child is an independent learner. Your feel safe when your child lives the values you inculcate. Having time on your side and confidence that you child grows up well, you can focus on your career.
Donate & Develop Movement
FAMILY BOND THROUGH STRENGTHS SERIES
Webinar 1 (Week 1): Understand Your Strengths Report and Start Mindfulness Journey
• Identify your top 5 strengths using StrengthFinder
• Identify your Blind Spots through Strengths
• Get access to online CliftonStrength resources, podcast and mobile application.
• Introducing FGC Mindfulness Technique
Webinar 2 (Week 2): Champions Mindset and Formulate Your Peak Performance Behaviour
• Bring Strengths to Life Through Experiential Activities at Home and Workplace
• Understanding the Pitfalls of your Strengths
• Identify Downtime and Repeat Peak Performance
Webinar 3 (Week 4): Nurturing Happy and Self-Motivated Children using Your Strengths
• How to Stop Polarizing People with your Strengths
• Applying your Strengths in Nurturing Your Children
• Develop Strategy to Communicate with Love
Webinar 4 (Week 7): Personal Emotional Mastery
• Learn Techniques to Control Emotions
• Learn NLP Language to Communicate with Intention
• Teach Your Child Problem Solving Skills and Instilling Good Habits
Webinar 5 (Week 10): Getting it All Together and Experience Transformation
This session is to celebrate personal successes and personal transformation
• Participants are encouraged to work with Accountability Partners
• Participants will be invited to join a private Facebook Group.
All the webinars will be recorded and uploaded into the private Facebook Group for those who miss the call or want to watch the replay.
Workbook, notes and materials will be made available in the private Facebook group.
“Every now and then a man's mind is STRETCHED by a new IDEA or SENSATION, and never shrinks back to its former dimensions.”
"Before knowing Mey, I thought parenting is about going
with the flow, doing what feels right and avoiding what
didn’t feel good in my growing up days.
After attending Mey’s workshop, her simple steps
cut short my learning curve and
I am confident to impart the right values in my children.”
Queen Kok, entrepreneur & Herbal Queen featured in Straits Times, mother of 4 year old boy
How Do You Know This Movement Is For You?
Are you a parent with children age between 3 to 12 years old?
Are you getting tired from screaming at your children to do their work?
Are you looking for new ideas to motivate your children and bond with them?
Are you looking to help people in need of financial assistance?
Do you have 1 hour per week for self development?
Have you done the 34 Clifton Strengths Finder Assessment?
If your answer is yes to the above, this movement is for you. If you do not have 34 Clifton Strengths Finder Assessment, we can discuss how to get that done.
The objective is to raise S$5000 by end December 2020 to support a charity organisation in need of financial support, of which S$800 has been raised to-date.
Why I Do What I Do?
I had a life crisis in 2014. Raising my 3 children and balancing my career was breaking me down. I started to have a ringing and painful sensations in my ears that no doctors could explain why. I had skin allergies and my menstrual cycle was disrupted.
Parenting is tough. I had a miscarriage in 2005 and suffered post-natal blues after having first-born.
I developed the LIFE MATRIX which has got me to where I want in my career and have happy children.
No parents need to go through the same struggles I had been through. The LIFE MATRIX is a 3 step process.
1. PREPARE anyone for any curveballs life throws at you
2. POSITION anyone for any situations regardless of your vulnerabilities.
3. PROGRESS towards your dreams without compromise.